If you had told me 20 years ago that I’d be sitting here writing about two decades of running BatesMeron, I probably would have laughed you off, said something bold and cocky … and secretly shat my pants. Back then, the idea of hitting this milestone seemed more like something other, pedigreed agencies did—agencies with office espresso machines and health insurance. I wanted very simple things back then: To make enough money to pay the bills and to take charge of my own destiny. I wanted to do things MY way.
But here we are, 20 years later, and BatesMeron is still standing, thriving and making an impact. (As is my therapist). And you know what? That’s worth celebrating! I don’t do that enough, pat myself on the back. But there we go, pat-pat, ‘well done, what a ride!’ But not just me, what about the designers, copywriters, account managers and project managers that joined us for this journey. When I think about each face that’s come and gone over the years … I get really mushy … and start hearing the Golden Girls theme song in my head. What would we be without all the contributors that have been part of this awesome team? Some were a huge part of our lives, some were more fleeting; but each addition to our staff added something to our collective culture, something unique that we’ll always remember them for.
And clients? Hello! Some of you wonderful souls took a chance on a tiny little agency with a tiny little office … you crammed into our “conference room” (ha) and put your trust in us. WOW. What were you thinking?! Just kidding, you were and are amazing. Some of you are still here and that is so freaking cool, right? THANK YOU, CLIENTS! I hope you feel as fondly about us as we do you. Because after all these years, we’re still so SWEET ON YOU.
Founding and leading this agency has been an awesome responsibility and honor. It’s been my child, my happiness, my sorrow and the thing that keeps me up at night. It’s also been one of the greatest teachers I’ve ever had. It’s tested my patience, stretched my limits and occasionally made me wonder if I should have been a DJ in Istanbul (not even my dream, but it sounds cool). But seriously, it’s shown me the beauty of building something meaningful, brick by brick, alongside a team and clients who care as deeply as I do.
Over these 20 years, I’ve learned more than I could possibly distill into a single article. But since the number six is kinda my thing (and no one wants me to go on longer than that), here are the lessons that have stuck with me the most—the ones that have shaped who we are, what we do and how we do it.
In marketing, as in life, what you say matters—but what you do matters even more. Promises are easy to make but hard to keep, and in this business, your reputation hinges on whether you deliver. We’ve always believed that if we commit to something, we follow through; whether it’s nailing a deadline, delivering a big idea or making sure our presentations don’t get saved over by John’s kid’s homework (ouch). It doesn’t matter how late the hour, how tired we are or who has a sick aunt; that’s what the team is for. We consistently step in to help the rest of the group deliver on that promise. The result? Clients who know they can count on us—not just for great work but for the trust we build along the way.
BTW, this can be as much about what you DON’T say as what you DO. I shudder to think of the money that’s passed us by because we refused to guarantee ROI (you can’t) or promise a certain outcome. We can’t. Business can’t. We can only promise that we’ll be there, do the work, make sure it’s excellent and set you up for success. And I’d rather have that hard conversation than run the other direction when I see a former client in the grocery store. No paycheck is worth that drama.
One of the hardest parts of this job is telling someone their beloved logo or tagline isn’t working. Or that the idea their husband scrawled on a napkin after three cocktails is honestly bad. But I can confirm that honesty—when paired with empathy—doesn’t just build better brands; it builds better relationships. Our job isn’t to agree for the sake of ease; it’s to challenge ideas thoughtfully and push for solutions that will truly serve our clients’ goals. When a client calls with changes that seem ‘out there,’ we’ll do it their way because we should never be arrogant enough to assume we’re all-knowing. And if it looks/is terrible, we must tell them so. Tough conversations are NEVER comfortable, but they’ve consistently led us to our best work.
This lesson was earned. We set off from day one with the value of candor, but holy hot wings, we never expected how often and to what degree that value would be tested. We’ve been asked to do things that would make you shoot your drink through your nose. And if we ever have a drink, I’ll tell you some of those stories. However, we’ve also been humbled by the amazing ideas our clients, our interns or even our vendors bring to the table. Candor is honest communication. Honest communication starts with listening. When you truly listen, you might realize there’s a reason behind what seems like a crazy idea. Maybe it’s not so out there after all—maybe you’re just not seeing the full picture. Some of our best work has sprung from religiously refusing to talk over someone else’s idea, from being weird and open-minded and willing to try what’s being asked of us. After all, it’s a SERVICE business, right? Note: Next time you’re at our office, just ask to see the cartoon Esmeralda was asked to draw. I will never take it down. It gives me so much dark, wicked joy.
It’s tempting to fill every gap the client needs. I get it. But can you honestly say you’re the best option for all their needs? From being paid to be a client’s therapist (true story, and I tried) to building a robot (didn’t even try), we’ve been offered good money to perform tasks we never promoted. In some cases, though they were nonexistent in the Scope of Work, our clients assumed we’d take on these duties. And sometimes we tried. And it was ALWAYS a mistake.
We’re specialists in branding, marketing and design … and we’re extremely proud of that. We’ve won really cool awards for that, which I’m supposed to say doesn’t matter—but honestly, it feels good. (I said what I said). But for everything else, things outside our specialty, we rely on smart, talented partners who complement what we do. Together, we build stronger, smarter solutions than could ever be delivered by just one partner.
Here’s the thing about staying in your lane: BE PROUD OF IT. There’s often a sense of shame in telling a client, “We can create simple, beautiful websites, but please don’t come near us with your 10,000 SKU e-commerce beast.” like it’s something to be embarrassed about. I’ve felt that too. But you need to kick that feeling to the curb and embrace what you LOVE to do … because that love shows in the work you produce. And in your level of happiness with your life.
I’ve always believed that passion is the engine behind great work. At BatesMeron, we don’t just show up; we show up excited, curious and ready to dig into the next challenge. Whether it’s brainstorming a campaign or tackling a tricky brand puzzle, there’s joy in the process—and that joy is what keeps us going, even on the days when the solutions seem unreachable. We step away, we get some fresh air, get some love from one of the office pups and return to the table refreshed and ready to pitch insanely creative ideas.
Or we go home. We get some rest. We tackle it tomorrow. The beauty of hiring passionate creatives and strategists is that if you give us the space to refuel, we can’t help but care deeply. And that translates into boundless and refillable creative wells. The beauty of having amazing Project Managers (you know who you are), is having the time to make sure those resources are cared for so they can keep being drawn from.
In the creative world, it’s easy to focus all your attention on the people paying the bills. But one of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned is that every relationship matters—whether it’s with a client, a vendor or the delivery person bringing lunch to the office. The way you treat people, no matter their role, sets the tone for your work and your reputation. And when you treat vendors like partners instead of whipping posts, you create an ecosystem of trust and collaboration that makes everything more positive.
That’s a pretty way of saying: those vendors, messengers and interns will pay you back in kind—because life is cyclical. You WILL mess up an enormous print job and that vendor will happily save your ass because you treated them well and paid your bills on time. Your intern will very possibly end up as a VP of Marketing at a dream brand you’d love to work with. How did you treat that intern? Call it karma, call it what you like, it is real. Most days, it is literally zero percent harder to be pleasant and respectful. And on the days it does become a challenge, think of it as exercise for your nervous system (lol). It’s worth it.
I love a bold, beautiful idea as much as the next Creative Director, but I’ve learned that clever and beautiful for the sake of oohs and ahhs isn’t enough. Every decision we make, every design we craft, mandatorily serves a purpose: To tell a story, to solve a problem, to help a brand connect with its audience. It’s not about choosing between artistry and strategy; it’s about weaving the two together to create work that resonates and delivers.
How do we maintain that focus? By having a team that isn’t afraid to speak up! Seriously, if you can create a safe place for people to help those who are in the weeds, deep inside a project, you’ve got something really wonderful. That person, that wonderful, strategic soul who read the brief but hasn’t been head-down in the project for weeks, has something you don’t currently possess—a fresh perspective.
BatesMeron pushes hard to make sure everyone feels safe saying, “Hey … can I just ask a question?” “Has this gotten away from us?” “Is this serving the strategic goal anymore?” Those people are THANKED for helping pull us away from looking at the details so close we can’t see the big picture. It’s happened a hundred times and it will happen a hundred more. But ask yourself, would you rather hear that from a Jr. Copywriter or from your client?
I don’t know what’s coming next for BatesMeron, and that’s always been the most uncomfortable and thrilling part of owning this agency. The world of branding and marketing is changing faster than ever—new technologies are reshaping how we connect with audiences, new challenges are pushing us to argue over their legitimacy and new, fabulous relationships are waiting to be built.
I don’t know exactly what the next 20 years will hold, but I do know this: I’m ready. Ready to embrace the tools that will make our work smarter and more impactful. Ready to collaborate with clients and partners who inspire us. Ready to face the unknown with the same dedication and passion that have gotten us this far.
Because at the heart of it all, what keeps me—and all of us at BatesMeron—moving forward is the belief that our best work isn’t behind us. It’s out there, waiting to be created. The stories we’ve yet to tell, the brands we’ve yet to build and the challenges we’ve yet to face all fuel the excitement for what’s ahead. Here’s to crafting the next chapter with love, creativity and a LOT of sweet design.
*Some say Abe Lincoln inspired that quote; some get very angry and say he didn’t. Whatever. Have fun with that rabbit hole.